CHRONIC INFANTILISM

What are the characteristics of the infant stage ? Maximum dependence, unconsciousness, ignorance, desire to selfish receive, global limitation on being in the process of formation. The progressive maturity where should lead us ? Precisely to the opposite factors. Parents are the basis of support,and the spearhead to project us socially depends on us once we acquire the indispensable development. How many adults remain unconscious for ignorance ? A lot. And if is so it means that childish reminiscences are still present. How many people already of working age remain self centered without considering others in the need to perform equitable exchanges in the eternal give and receive ? In each epoch we should be in line with its specificities, what can not be is to increase the age but not mature. Child self centering is normal due to deficiencies, for emotional responses, but then we have to be responsible for what we want, of what we do and the consequences, and this mean taking into account the incidence of our actions in the environment. When we blame someone for the events by shedding responsibility; when we demand in bad ways; when we have to win even with traps; when we deceive, exaggerate, distorts the facts; when an observation or reflection can not be endured in order to improve as if we were perfect and had to correct nothing; when each movemment is only in our behalf. All these manifestations are a reflection of chronic infantilism. Who is truly mature is serious, responsible, assumes the consequences of the task, it does not seek excuses, but solutions, and instead of complaints, focuses on expanding horizons in the experienced.