MISTAKES TO PERPETUATE

Why in such a preponderant  way, people can not bear an observation, a reflection with the intention of improving some aspect ?  for te evidence to going astray, and if you have and inflated ego you can´t stand it.

On the one hand they say : do not criticize, do not judge. and in  other, laws, rules, judges, courts dictate sentence.

If everyone were flawless there would be no need for guidelines stating that it can be done and what not, we would already know how to proceed.

When an offense is committed, a fine is usually received. Then if someone does not behave properly should be go unpunished ? Shouldn´t those in positions of responsibility be virtuous ? Because they are in a hierarchical position, should they be shielded as if they were gods ? Can´t a company manager suggest changes to the director ? A child can not make reflections to a father ? A student can not question the teacher´s explanations ?

When we are adults we can not react like pampered young children. If we have to listen or read expressions that bother us, there is a message to review our behavior. The interlocutor may or may not be correct in the diagnosis. Can use careful or harsh language, and we must not remain in the packaging, but in the content.

If someone complains or criticizes us, it is an opportunity to find out if we are doing the right thing or if we need to correct ourselves. ¿ Or do we prefer the repetitive mistake with the inconveniences and losses it will end up producing ?

If we have a clear discernment and we are equanimous, we will know if what they tell us is true or not. And if is true, instead of anger us for what we dislike, we must be grateful that they want to help us improve.

Exercise a determined charge is not reason to be untouchable and incorregible. Precisely it must be impeccable for the good of those whom he may sprinkle with negligent conduct.

The more immature and ignorant, the less adverse comments are supported. The more mature and intelligent, the more open, the more accessible and more chances of being corrected.

For decades or centuries to pass, many countries, many people, they continue to make the same mistakes over and over again. The bad advice of the ego make them stay in error forever. Transforming it requires the desire which must emerge from the counsciousness, a firm will and determination, submit claims and distorted beliefs causes of errors. And this is not a simple or quick task, but a constant and perennial one.

THE THREE OBSTRUCTIVE FACTORS

How many people are wondering where it is failing ? When similar situations are repeated that lead to tensions, discomfort, discrepancies and lack of understanding, do they discover the cause for reversing these trends ?

How many people recognize their weaknesses ? How many people sincerely admit it ? How many people really want to transform the different inaccuracies leading to problems ?

No one else can live for us, the essential always depends on us. Made to act individually, having to look outside for what we need internally, generates the indispensable self-esteem that pushes us to surpass ourselves. Is a constant personal task. In the search of resources  to support us, with the desire to experience satisfaction, we establish relationships where we must know how to act with the maximum balance between thought, sense and purpose to dynamize. If there is harmony will be fluidity, but in any point there is not indispensable clarity, then the conflict  can break out.

How does the mismatch occur ? Between what is intended to be obtained and its outcome. If we abuse, we want to take advantage, impose by force, if we harm others, is the clear exponent that acts incorrectly

The distorted view of believing the purpose and methods employed are correct, when the evidences shows the opposite, is the product of an immature consciousness focused on selfish desires. Unfortunately this is repeated daily in people of all ages, because maturity is not a matter of years in itself, but of attitudes, of approaches, of responsibility, of seriousness.

Material longings remain in the superficial and this compendium of selfishness and immaturity is generating negative behaviors which increase the darkness and gradually deteriorate the quality and abundance in health, finances and relationships.

The lack of light fattens the ego and at the same time means staying in a children´s stadium, and how can it be otherwise negativity increases producing deterioration in the areas that are most valuable.