DESIRES AND SUPPOSITIONS

Desire is wanting, and in order to achieve it, is required an action mobilizing resources that allow the obtaining of the intended.

Everyone has desires because we have lacks and dependencies, and is the survival instinct the invigorator between subject and object. The nature of desires in essence is similar between each one, the different is how we face the persecuted.

If we had all the needs covered we should not strive, we would not have to relate and we would only be consumers in a life without a purpose of growth. It is precisely what we do not have and it depends on the exchanges with others, which pushes us to instruct ourselves and provide with resources, because the interaction between giving and receiving, is the key to individual and collective functioning.

Once we get the basic services, other secondary wishes they are the ones that make the difference between us.

The most part of desires are for personal enjoyment, where the trigger is the " sense of satisfaction " Between before and after is where we need to know how to measure and decide what can be convenient and what not, and we will do well to ask when the possibility exists of convert the " supposed welfare " in a detriment. ¿ Where can this desire lead me ? Is it essential or dispensable ? Do i need it ? For what ? For what purpose ? Can it be beneficial or evil ?

Is it to short term degradating then ? Is it a noble or innoble desire ? To satisfy the primary or a refined goal ? To get the desired can I transgress laws or rules that end up hurting others ?

Desire tests the  intelligence, sensitivity, emotions and the executive action which will determine the result. We suppose that certain conditions will bring us some kind of good, but all the external, transient, depending on a person, is volatile. Having a partner, children, an occupation don´t guarantee happiness, and often is a source of conflicts. The links established serves for a later purpose, but they are not an end. Filling gaps, covering deficits, is a personal task that goes from the inner to the outside and returns to the inner.

Desire the necessary, the right one, the one that improves, this must be the focus. Act for a healthy end by attracting it in the right way during the journey.