CHILDISH SOCIETY

What is the behavior of a child ? What does a child ? Grab, receiving constantly, whether is food, care and all kind of attentions. This is normal when we are children, because the conditions of the early years make us be dependent of others to survive and have the essential resources.

As we grow we have to win independence, and this entails responsibility. Take charge of our actions, earn the acquisition of resources through exchanges.

All very easy of understanding and accepting forcibly we like it or not, the dilemma arises when in adulthood note immature behavior of good part of society.

We can work, pay bills, but if our procedure is not very different from the one shown in childhood, we are stuck. And by attitude mean selfish postures of meanwhile I am well, the others acting by themselves.

To want accumulate without necessity that justifies, the relations regrettable that usually do daily, between couples, from parents to children, in the scope of work.

Of what avail is it the technology, comfort, if you are unable to hold a profound conversation, with sense ? Where is the sensibility to mobilize for needy a part of a few volunteers ? We ask affection but we don´t know give it. We want friends and we don´t know behave as such to receive it. We will want to be happy, but our own incompetence derived from unconsciousness, superficiality, from materialism and prevailing selfishness, away one time and another to experience it.

Surrounded by abundance we live miserably, in accordance the diary news and the chaos in the form of various conflicts and problems.

Only maturing, that is seeing clear what should be the aim, how we act, how replace harmful expressions by the favorable, can change these conditions.Who has already done has been released from the vicious circle.It´s a matter of wanting it and know how to do it.

CHANGE INFLUENCES

One of the more difficult things is to change the root firmly inside, whether convictions, character, cultural sphere or intrinsic capacity.

The thinking depends of  the ability of discern, to know how to be equable, of training, environment and the developmental level. If this set of influence leads to personal harmony and the neighbor, is a good example of reasoning. If on the contrary, it is complicated and difficult be understood with others, where the tension and discomfort is present, indicate that the influences imbedded in us, instead of facilitating fluency cause an obstacle.

How change thoughts, beliefs, interests that lead to prejudice ? The inflexible rigor about limited criteria, with postured closed that not provide solutions, in the end leads to conflict, where the magnitude increases if they are unable to change thoughts and actions aimed at unlocking.

By general rule deal with people short-sighted, egocentric and inconsiderate always is a bad deal. When one part can not understant the other neither effort because only wants preserve their opinion and position, open a crack that distance, and instead to find solutoins generate a problematic persistence.

Lock in hand, encountering with discrepancies defending indefensible arguments, is a lack of wisdom, that only will correct if you are willing to open up, listen, reflect and widen horizons. The only way to be able to issue reasonable verdicts, is watching the set in deep, coming out of the particular maze of ideas to understand the differences.

Who refuse to change entrenched in lifeguard umbrellas, will must assume the result of inflexibility.

Resolute poverty drifting of the argumentative poverty and the ineptitude involved at the hour of acting.

Without internal maturity, with low capacity of discern accurately and correctly, is like a sentence that traps within a limited schemes, that far from behaving salvation will dictate a sentence in a kind of self execution.