FAMILY ( III )

Parents are the referent that have to teach us how to behave in society. From the unconsciousness in the birth to the minimum awareness, we need to know how to act with efficiency. For this purpose is paramount acquire training, and that the parents provide a mature conception of life, to transmit values to reverse in a common benefit.
Despite the family hierarchy, this fact has not mean subjugation or domination, simply a fair treatment, being treated with dignity among all. Children are not property of the parents, we are all free. The role of fathers is only physical intermediaries for which each one perform the specific function.
The family by its connotations, represent the most remarkable people, by its ties, coexistence and links have been established.
The influences received will be reflected in the manner of proceeding. However, it is only the base, the point of reference, because individually we are different with the respective peculiarities, that we are transmitting to the society.
The growth is move from dependence to independence, from an ignorance to a learning. Parents provide nutrition, and they also have to be a support in the mental and emotional.
As we acquire greater autonomy, the family goes to occupy a secundary place, until to form a new one if is the case.
The organization in small plots facilitates the concentration, a better functioning by focusing on what we can supply. And what we need and what we have to seek out, we provide other groups making all together of intermediaries.
The division in a myriad of families provides the order, otherwise it would have a dispersion negating the smooth functioning of the whole.
Everything has its reason for being, it is a question of knowing hold on us, and in the role of parents and children there is a mutual teaching and learning.
Through the experiences are new challenges that test the members of the family, and the merit is to find the appropriate expression in each case for a fluid exchange. The collaboration, dialog, and understanding must be the aim to ovecome dissonance where peaceful coexistence a reality.