THE QUALITY OR NOT THAT WE SHARE ( II )

A seed is required, a right place, and that this seed or basis contain assets to be developed bearing a fruit when the time is right. This show that the quality it depends on the substance with an internalized value and give the relevant treatment in order to achieve a benefit. We must make this extensive on all fronts. At the level of thought, give us breadth and equanimity. In the emotional aspect observe with detachment so that pretensions an attitude are not harmful. And the actions must drive to the utility, because the useless is not the goal.                                                                                                                                                      Depending on the ideas and the expressed will approach or move away from the quality. Criticism is good if improves the person or the context. If it does not do it in either of the two is sterile and negatives the environment.                                                                                                                                                     The conversations must be attractive. give them substance, because just chatting to get nowhere is boring. There is too much repetitiveness, a generalized stuckness product of the lifestyle and not expansion of the potential, and so will be difficult obtain quality. We must heed the beginning of " If your words are not better than my silence it is better to be silent "                                                                                                 We can be involved in affective relationships but not dependent. Show us close and also detached. We must not be at the disposal of what others say or do according to our wishes. We will get quality with a mature attitude of knowing how to be there for someone if they need us without getting catch.                   Find at all times the optimal measures between internal and external, the personal and the collective, attentive to what surround us, acting with care considering the proism, so we will be able to achieve the balance and quality derived from the process.

THE QUALITY OR NOT OF WHAT WE SHARE

Everyone wants quality, and this implies that there are some utensilis, some ingredients with some peculiarities and contributions that must know how to combine to extract a purpose from it, and it must bring profit and well being.                                                                                                                              The purest, resistant, durable, are synonyms of quality, presents in all areas, therefore we must differentiate between what is optimal and what is not. If we have qualitative elements we have to know how to deal with them, how to apply them to achieve the best performance in their use.                              Voluntarily or forcibly we share, and the temperament, sensitivity and the type of bond, will incline us to show ourselves in a specific way according to the case.                                                                                 Most associate quality with material factors, and they are undoubtedly valuable. Howewer, true quality emerges from the inside in the form of virtues evidenced in behavior. Show kindness, affection, equanimity, spirit of service, rectitude, and  search of individual and social harmony, are factors that generate quality.                                                                                                                                                              What do we share ? What we are willing to share ? We can do it through words, goods, and actions. The current present is a product of past interactions. What we have we received it through exchanges. What we have learned has been through transmissions that have provided bases for subsequent increases.                  What we share they are inheritances from others derived from knowledge or resources, with successive links for new continuities.                                                                                                                                Where does the quality of sharing lie ? In what it shows, in the sensations it leaves. Quality are optimal benefits, in what is said, is done and what is left. Why is it so hard to have quality relationships ? because selfish interests prevail and there is no true longing to know characteristics of the other for a satisfactory fit. There is not quality because we have not internalized it in ourselves due to the superficial lifestyle self centered on low profile desires compared to what we can get with spiritual development. If there is not enough quality inside it will be reflected outside. Quality depends on the raw and/or external material and the outcome with the result.

ASSIDUOUS REPETITION AND BOREDOM

Assiduous repetition is inevitable to being caught in a continuous chain of beginnings and endings. Where and how can we forge licenses ? Facing the new day with care so that the repetitions show us new visions and opportunities. Automatisms are used to act effectively, being receptive to novelties and unforeseen events that expand the solving skill. Assiduous repetition and boredom is talk always the same, be predictable, monotonous, with a feeling of being stuck that is not going anywhere, limiting and impoverishing exchanges.                                                                                                                               Repetitive acts, topics discussed until exhaustion turned into useless chatter, Dragged by an inertia where the lack of ideas and renewal inevitably leads to boredom.                                                                             Regular relationships need space so they don´t become monotonous. It is better to space the contacts and that they are of a short duration, because catching up takes a few minutes, and if we don´t have interesting material to pass on next, then boredom makes an appearance.                                                                      What nourishes, what pleases, for repetitions carried out does not tire because there is a fund of value and benefits. We can repeat actions an infinite number of times and not get bored by their content.                    To be attractive we must offer solid or subtle goods that captivate the senses, that vibrate. Introduce in the usual or similar differential factors.                                                                                                                 We need quantity but is the quality that cheers up, and is hard to find because it´s a question of selecting the best ingredients treated with care to extract the more precious. In what we say and in what we do is where the difference lies to bring us closer or further away from boredom or enjoyment.

PAREJ ( TWO TYPES OF PAIN )

Cut down and fragment, one very hard, and the other Parej, the breaking point that fragmented, took out the soul, made little the spirit. A task where they started, interrupted, restarted and it never ended. We have exemples in politics, in relations, and in the good intentions of what we want to accomplish and we already know how it ends.                                                                                                                              When we don´t finish what we start there is no satisfaction, the task lose the sense, it has no meaning. The physical task is not the problem.The process of physical weakening becomes weakness of the soul, and is here where the vacuunm is generated.                                                                                                           With the observed in this aspect we can know what kind of opponent we have to leave : meaningless, actions that lead nowhere, relationships that don´t grow, jobs that alienate, useless thoughts. We have come to be creative and creators in all areas, we need the sense of life almost more than physical food, the challenge is to wake up in us and how enter in contact. We are not here to keep repeating routine daily exams focused basically on having and on material demands. The sense and the goal is not maintain for maintain, is discover what to do so that the repetitiveness of beginnings and endings has a meaningful purpose beyond the subsistence. Live to be unconsciously of why, or live so that efforts go beyond nourishing  the body not knowing where we are going nor why trapped in obligations, commitments and limitations, many of them created by the supposed feeling of satisfaction when in reality limit and condition. Breaking the vicious circle is the daily trial by fire to which all are subjected regardless of our potential no matter where we are.                                                                                                                           

CRIMES ARE ERRONEOUS DESIRE OF EGO

Committing a crime means transgressing laws aimed at restoring order and justice to avoid chaos. Everything that surrounds us is subject to laws so that haramony prevails, and if they violate the discord breaks this harmony.                                                                                                                                         We all have what need at every moment. To pretend more is to say that there is a mistake in the individual supervision assigned to each. Is a desire that arises from ignorance believing in certain rights to achieve gratifications. Nothing further from the truth, because achieving goals depends on merits. Want things of someone´s else using coercive methods, assaulting, harming or damaging values or physical integrity, is one of the most despicable acts which denote lowliness by breaking basic rules of coexistence. Starting with misappropiation and continuing with disrespect and disturbance of peace. In search of a mean to have which deteriorates the subject losing various virtues along the way more valuable than any booty achieved by force to satiate some instincts.                                                                                                                   A punishable characteristic is that the criminal seeks personal gain at the expense of another´s loss. ¿ Can there be an action more miserable than this ? The ultimate exponent of selfishness and inconsideration, instigator of negativity by what entails the desire, action and the result.                                                       What do you want to get ? Satisfy a primal desire. Can be sex, money, desire for dominance, revenge. What these individuals don´t understand or don´t know is that if you don´t have what you want, it is because it´s not theirs, because if were the opposite one way or another it would get to them.                      It is said that a spirit of madness is introduced into the person that drives him to commit crime. And really is so, because it doesn´t just break several laws, but the subsequent toll to pay is much greater that the supposed gain. It does not even endanger the loss of freedom, fines or other dispositions, it is the debt to repair with the people, means and the environment that has harmed, apart from the accumulated karma to be paid in the form and time we don´t know when it will be presented.

THE MINIMUM CONTRIBUTION OF EACH ONE THAT ALLOWS TO LIVE

Within the immense universe of which we only know  a tiny part, we are surrounded by various kingdoms with their evolution and contribution. Each one has a function that participates in the exchange for retroactive feeding. How the peculiarities and benefits of each species have been forged is a mistery like many others, but looking into an unknown immensity, we see that our shortcomings and dependencies which we can  not cover individually, we get them thanks to everyone´s contribution.                                 Personally we are only able to offer minuscule donations, because the rest depends of multiple connections that nurture us in obtaining resources. To mantain ourselves physically and act we can only do it for ourselves, but breathe, eat and drink we get it by the environment. We do the minimum effort, because the maximum in our continuity it comes from outside.                                                                                         We are like a drop of water in the middle of an ocean, showing that our pretensions of greatness are a sample of ignorance and unconsciousness to inflate the ego. We should realize what we do, what we want, and when drives, realizing how little we are able to achieve going after banalities while the substance of what will have to look for escapes us.                                                                                                              Our insignificance in the immensity is showing in our incapacity to evolve gradually. Investment time in task empty of content we don´t expand knowledge, preventing improvement in the needed areas. And so accumulate days that has the goal to replace the prosaic with the refined, it does not even enter the plans of the majority. We are contributing to maintaining the presence, but is only the external part.                         The purpose is the qualitive transformation using the resources and the executive capacity that reveals the content the efforts of our peculiarity and function among the rest of the various contributors, where everyone plays their role and service whether we see or not.

ATTRACTION OR REPULSION

The attraction or repulsion it´s a matter of wavelength. Where we tune in, where we vibrate, where we agree, will generate attraction, And on the opposite side it will show us repulsion.                                       The senses transmit information to us according to our idyosincrasies. It´s all about tastes and values. What we like has a value, and what we dislike does not. We want to get closer to what makes us feel good, and away from what does not freeze, what irritates.                                                                                        The similar attracts the similar and the different separate. We need to stay with people with whom we understand each other, be able to collaborate with each other, That´s why we come together for affinities. ¿ How can we relate to any perspective if the ideals are opposites, different objectives and a conflicting code of values ? The evolutionary level, the cultural scope, the family heritage they influence the concepts we have forged about what surround us. Diversity menas that there are criteria and tendencies of all kinds, and so that which is highly valued and pleasant by some, it is unpleasant and worthless to others. ¿Some are right and others not ? Connections lean us in one direction, and development and results must be seen with the possible benefits or losses to realize where each one is headed and what he may find sooner or later.                                                                                                                                                                 We must know how to observe to realize the pros and cons of what attracts. Temptations assiduously physical and / or materials can look captivating, but is necessary broaden horizons and seeing the full picture and possible outcomes.                                                                                                                       Both what attracts and what is rejected are indicated to us by the senses. What we see, feel, touch, smell and tastes, and our singularity they will lean in one side or another. We are destined to relate with the people according to our evolution in each section of the different processes. Who is very different we will no longer know him, because the important thing is the utility.                                                                      We must approach to what revitalizes and offers opportunities, and reject the opposite sense. Is very easy make the elections because we have very internalized what fit us and what diverges.

IMMOBILITY DUE TO FEAR, COMFORT OR PRIVILEGE

If we are immersed in a world set up to move forward, why certain people in which areas immobility is sought ? Links are inevitable. From a previous action to a later one, the chain is constant, and no one escapes to this framework. Every day is similar but none identical, then ¿ from which arises the desire to perpetuate situations for fear or supposed losses, to enjoy a comfort or maintain certain privileges ? We are permanently debating between two fronts. Facing the unknown with what we know to go looking for what you don´t have. A part of certainty  and a foundation. and one part of uncertainty and empty. The ignorance of what can happen it makes us cling to the experienced and usual because we know how to proceed.                                                                                                                                                            The spiritual precepts tell us that everything is for the best and we must have certainty. If we know how to observe, we will check on an individual level. Events that seemed harmful at the time have led us to a more optimal situation. In the collective aspect it cost much more due to the dynamic of crisis and chaos that always accompanies us.                                                                                                                            Why we want to hold on to relationships that are empty of content, boring, without enthusiasm or a purpose of growth ? why don´t we look to find a job that allows us to cover indispensable resources ? Why do we settle for a simple generalization in the different usual areas if the stranding prevails in more of a front ? Maintaning privileges often at the expenses of others for selfish material desires which are satisfying to have but prevent improvements as a being.                                                                                                      What do we gain and what do we lose with immobility ? We want to cover the file and make it light by wasting opportunities to expand us by imaginary fears of thought ? Or we want to establish generalized satisfaction through efforts, time and patience with the relevant benefits at the right time ?                         What is immutable are the foundations from which the basic intentions spring expressed in eternal virtues with the purpose of stablishing a state of continuous well being and harmony.

INDULGENCE AND DEMAND

Demand is squeeze, indulgence is loosen up. Demand is rigor, indulgence is clemency. Demand is ambition  to do more  and better. Indulgence is lower possibilities by indolence for lack of enthusiasm opting for inaction. Do we have to be demanding ? If we want quality provinding us with more optimal benefits with increment of resources, is indispensable. Demand is to maintain or raise the level. The action has a purpose aimed at a profit, and the result will tell us.                                                                              The idyosincrasy and aptitudes of each one raise or lower the bar with respect to the claims of what we pursue. Giving more or less importance to the objectives will determine the involvement and intensity. To preserve and continue to advance in the field that entails a demand of attention, specific actions and have the appropiate instruments. It´s all a matter of measurements. Demand is to add up, to overcome, and according to the context and the person it can end up being counterproductive. Indulgence tends to subtract by inaction or indulge in excesses, but it can be useful in specific situations to relax.                       If we want more we must do more, but more is not always synonimous of more satisfaction. Win in certain respects at the cost of losing in others, does not report well being. Is here where we have to know what the priorities are so they end up flowing.                                                                                               There are those who are demanding towards others and indulgent towards oneself. The good posture is show understanding and benevolence, and demand when it is precise.                                                           There are moments to be demand and others to be indulgent. Harmony lies in make the relevant choice in every situation, and this it depends on the perspective of equanimity and knowing how to value the presents factors that enter in scene in each case.

HURTFUL ACTS ARE NOT ERASED

Nothing is casual, everything has a reason, and although we do not see the motive of the experienced, it obeys some purpose that we may or not discover. Every cause will have its effect, and the trigger can backfire on us to a recent or remote past about certain behaviors. Hurtful words, dishonest actions, swindlers, aggressions, mistreats, they are for reflection and show us the ideal forms to proceed instead of discomfort with well being.                                                                                                                              Even if we see that they are signs, warnings, messages of learning, the imprint generated in us will remain impregnated in the more deep as indelible stains. The words are not carried away by the wind, they are remembered, they are perpetuated. The intensity of the wound due to incorrect behaviors can be minimized, but the memory is mantained and the loss of quality, trust and closeness that we had is fading away. We must think very well what we want to say or what we want to do for the later consequences. Everything counts, and once it has been externalized there is no going back and it is recorded with the impact it has left.                                                                                                                                               The egoistic and insensitive forms are the origin of all indecisiveness coming from actions or words. When someone must ask for forgiveness it is the recognition of an error, and the best thing is to try not to have to get here. We say we forgive the offender, but the fact leaves a lasting memory and it remains as a stain on the file and a deterioration in the relationship according to the magnitude of the fact and the result. Disappointments accumulate over the years, when it is not one´s are others, When they are not close relations, others are, and in the end, the intensity and the enjoyment is losing in the way.